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Catcalling: creepy or a compliment?

When Holly Kearl was researching her master's thesis on street harassment last winter, she was pleasantly surprised that lewd remarks were few and far between. Then spring rolled around.

Suspicion rises over higher food costs

Forced to pay for once-free sandwich toppings and twice as much for some steak cuts, shoppers are wondering whether higher grocery bills and restaurant tabs truly reflect the trickle down of a global rise in food prices.

Create yourself a new mother

Unfortunately, motherhood is so difficult that virtually no one does it perfectly. Maybe your mother was flawless, but it's more likely she made mistakes. Whatever her errors, you inherited a legacy of sorrow.

Get your BlackBerry out of our bed!

Like other couples, D-D Flannery and her husband have an assortment of buzzing hand-held devices in the bedroom to help keep things lively. The problem is, these devices don't improve their love life -- just their work flow.

Who's happier -- older or younger?

Newsflash for rock stars and teenagers: It turns out everything doesn't go downhill as we age -- the golden years really are golden.

Mom's gift to kids: 'No!'

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach of TLC's "Shalom in the Home" says we can't just blame kids for acting bratty or spoiled. Kids today, he says, are exhibiting a lot of anger because they feel neglected by parents who may put careers ahead of family.

Your blog can be group therapy

When a 24-year-old woman who called herself "90DayJane" launched a blog in February announcing she would write about her life and feelings for three months and then commit suicide, 150,000 readers flocked to the site. Some came to offer help, some to delight in the drama. Others speculated it was all a hoax.

Beware of 'The Tinkler'

On any given day here at "O, The Oprah Magazine," there are somewhere in the neighborhood of 69 very talented, extremely detail oriented, high-energy, hardworking women and men all doing their jobs and doing them well. I love a few of them, I like a lot of them, I despise one of them. She is the Magneto to my Wolverine, the Saruman to my Frodo, the Dr. Octopus to my Spiderman. I call her The Tinkler.

How to drive without burning money

Gas prices have been surging to record highs. But it's not just the gas bill that drivers are getting socked with. The costs of car insurance, tires, licensing and registration are on the rise, too. But there are some strategies you can use to cut the cost of owning your car.

Money disputes hurt families

Marcel Holmstrom didn't talk to his father for six months because of money. When his dad sold the family home for a tidy sum, Holmstrom thought part of the windfall would come to him.

Catcalling: creepy or a compliment?

When Holly Kearl was researching her master's thesis on street harassment last winter, she was pleasantly surprised that lewd remarks were few and far between. Then spring rolled around.

Suspicion rises over higher food costs

Forced to pay for once-free sandwich toppings and twice as much for some steak cuts, shoppers are wondering whether higher grocery bills and restaurant tabs truly reflect the trickle down of a global rise in food prices.

Create yourself a new mother

Unfortunately, motherhood is so difficult that virtually no one does it perfectly. Maybe your mother was flawless, but it's more likely she made mistakes. Whatever her errors, you inherited a legacy of sorrow.

Get your BlackBerry out of our bed!

Like other couples, D-D Flannery and her husband have an assortment of buzzing hand-held devices in the bedroom to help keep things lively. The problem is, these devices don't improve their love life -- just their work flow.

Who's happier -- older or younger?

Newsflash for rock stars and teenagers: It turns out everything doesn't go downhill as we age -- the golden years really are golden.

Mom's gift to kids: 'No!'

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach of TLC's "Shalom in the Home" says we can't just blame kids for acting bratty or spoiled. Kids today, he says, are exhibiting a lot of anger because they feel neglected by parents who may put careers ahead of family.

Your blog can be group therapy

When a 24-year-old woman who called herself "90DayJane" launched a blog in February announcing she would write about her life and feelings for three months and then commit suicide, 150,000 readers flocked to the site. Some came to offer help, some to delight in the drama. Others speculated it was all a hoax.

Beware of 'The Tinkler'

On any given day here at "O, The Oprah Magazine," there are somewhere in the neighborhood of 69 very talented, extremely detail oriented, high-energy, hardworking women and men all doing their jobs and doing them well. I love a few of them, I like a lot of them, I despise one of them. She is the Magneto to my Wolverine, the Saruman to my Frodo, the Dr. Octopus to my Spiderman. I call her The Tinkler.

How to drive without burning money

Gas prices have been surging to record highs. But it's not just the gas bill that drivers are getting socked with. The costs of car insurance, tires, licensing and registration are on the rise, too. But there are some strategies you can use to cut the cost of owning your car.

Money disputes hurt families

Marcel Holmstrom didn't talk to his father for six months because of money. When his dad sold the family home for a tidy sum, Holmstrom thought part of the windfall would come to him.

Why he needs a room of his own

When Vicki and Brian Meldrum bought their first home four years ago in Cleveland, they made a pact: She could decorate and furnish the rest of the 1,110-square-foot house however she wanted, but the 15-by-10-foot finished basement was his.

'Honey, let's become nudists'

In 1989, Nancy Tiemann was 36 and living in Austin, Texas, with her husband, Tom. "We were both desperately in need of a getaway," says the one-time banking officer. When Tom suggested they join a boat trip to Belize chartered by a group of nudists, Nancy was horrified.

To be alone or not to be alone?

You know yourself: Do you need a push to be more outgoing -- or to be alone without going crazy? O's life coach says you'll be better off -- more balanced, less prone to loneliness -- if you try to go against the grain now and then. And she's got a few exercises to get you there.

Selling family treasures to pay bills

The for-sale listings on the online hub Craigslist come with plaintive notices, like the one from the teenager in Georgia who said her mother lost her job and pleaded, "Please buy anything you can to help out."

Do you mommy your husband?

Kristen Rounds, 26, admits that she's a little gaga over her man. "I'm like his mommy," the Monterey Park, California, resident says with a laugh about her fiancé, a first-year medical student.

Best ways to remember more

What's the best way to hang on to what you learn? New memory research has answers.

Belly 'facials,' photographers for moms-to-be

Before the crying, diaper changes and sleepless nights set in, a growing number of moms-to-be are spending their pregnancies in the lap of luxury. From belly "facials" to in-home massage therapy and private yoga sessions, women are indulging like it might be their last chance.

Who Are You Really?

Quick, finish this sentence: "I am a ________."

Explaining death to children

Teaching her young son about death has been an ongoing task for Vanessa Abron ever since his uncle, who lived with them in Queens, New York, died of cirrhosis in February.

How to raise financially savvy kids

Parents have a lot to worry about in these difficult economic times. It costs more for everything from food to gas to clothes. It's hard for them to be a good example for their kids when it comes to being prudent with money.

Break out of your lonely season

At times in my life, I have been utterly lonely. At other times, I've had disgusting infectious diseases. Try admitting these things in our culture, and you'll find they evoke identical responses: Listeners cringe with a mixture of pity, revulsion, and alarm.

Arranged marriage gets high-tech twist

When it was time for Sabiha Ansari to get married, her parents flew her to India. She met her husband-to-be for less than 20 minutes, with family, then was asked whether she liked him.

How to find your hidden money

You know how good it feels when you fish a $10 bill out of your jeans pocket right before it hits the wash. Imagine coming into hundreds of dollars from a savings bond or a bank account you forgot about.

How to feast on joy every day

Every day I remind myself to return to the spirit of feasting. This is part of a program I call the Joy Diet, a regimen designed not for the body, but for the inner self (the word diet originally didn't mean an eating program; it was a way of living).

Study: Single parents cost taxpayers $112 billion

Divorce and out-of-wedlock childbearing cost U.S. taxpayers more than $112 billion a year, according to a study commissioned by four groups advocating more government action to bolster marriages.

How close is too close to an ex?

Relationships are tricky enough with just two people involved so imagine how delicate the balancing act becomes when your ex is still in the mix.

Illegal immigrants pay billions in taxes

The tax system collects its due, even from a class of workers with little likelihood of claiming a refund and no hope of drawing a Social Security check.

Gay couples face higher tax bills

For gay couples, the April 15 tax filing deadline can be a reminder of the disparities they face, even in a nation that is becoming more accepting of same-sex couples.

In defense of an unbalanced life

It's five o'clock in the morning. I've been awake for about 23 hours, having struggled vainly to fit in writing between yesterday's tasks: getting the car fixed, taking the dog to the vet, answering e-mail, going grocery shopping, driving my kids to music lessons, seeing clients, picking up deli sandwiches for dinner and cuddling a 12-year-old through some of the horrors of puberty.

When your spouse is a slob

When Susie Toth's boyfriend told her a few months after she moved in that they "needed to talk," she was crestfallen.

Compare your money habits

Break free from wallet-squeezing fees

Terri Lovin and her husband, Harold, may have had the world's most expensive pizza ... at $117 a pie. No, it's not gourmet dining. A cashier charged the couple twice for the $22.50 pizza.

Be a savvy consumer when looking for love online

Looking for love this Valentine's day? Make sure Cupid's arrow doesn't hit your wallet.

How to lower the pain at the pump

It's costing us more and more money to fill up the gas tank. And while that's unlikely to change anytime soon, there are some tricks to getting the most value per gas dollar.

When to call in financial cavalry

Krista Wallis, her husband, Joe, and her 19-year-old son from a previous marriage were living a pretty good life in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

Your one-day financial makeover

Movie with the girls. Ka-ching! An $8 focaccia sandwich for lunch. Ka-ching. The cat's blood-pressure medicine. Ka-ching! Late fees, insurance, utility bills. Ka-ching, ka-ching, ka-ching. Sure, you could save money -- if only you could stop spending it.

From $70K to food bank, one family's struggle

When she was laid off in February, Patricia Guerrero was making $70,000 a year. Weeks later, with bills piling up and in need of food for her family, this middle-class mother did something she never thought she would do: She went to a food bank.

What's wrong with being angry?

One of the first fights my wife and I ever had, some months into our marriage, was about how to wash lettuce. It was a small thing that flared into a big thing, and it sent me running to my therapist for help in putting out the fire.

Why am I alone? Oops, wrong question

When I lived in the country one summer an ad for a local dating service would come on the radio every time I drove around.

What soldiers carry for good luck

As he travels through Iraq, Army Sgt. Jon Fleenor carries a scorched and blackened teddy bear. After surviving a roadside bomb attack with the stuffed animal beside him, Fleenor doesn't like to part from it.

How do you know your love is real? Check Facebook

Ashley Shinn didn't know she was in a relationship until asked to confirm it in a message from Facebook.

Sex takes 3 to 13 minutes, study says

Maybe men had it right all along: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed.

Quit fighting -- get a postnuptial agreement

Can a piece of paper save a marriage? One suburban Boston couple figured it was worth trying so they entered into a legal agreement to manage a major source of tension in their relationship - money.

Homeowners eye more foreclosures

Things a stepmother should never say

As far as hard jobs go, it's up there with air-traffic controller and crane operator. Stepmothers preside over a minefield of hidden hurts, half-concealed traditions and occasional tugs-of-war. Want the job?

When he's a cheat, revenge seems sweet

Teri Garr is known for her acting roles in "Tootsie" and "Friends," but one man in Hollywood will probably remember her best for the way she wields a hammer.

How to get the best prices

There's never been a better time to be a bargain hunter. Here are some tips and strategies to help you get the best price.

Female author writes about her own male past

Jennifer Finney Boylan never set out to be the public face for the transgendered.

Fighting with spouse can be good for your health

There are toilet-paper tiffs, thermostat scuffles, ongoing debates over money, sex and the television remote. And then there are the laundry wars.

Your emergency mood kit

Everyone experiences mood variations -- while you may feel cheerful and optimistic most of the time, you might occasionally feel grumpy, anxious, or dejected.

Let new you break through

Forget a head-to-toe makeover. From angling your bangs to upgrading your moisturizer to switching laundry detergents, a change doesn't have to be a big deal to be a real breakthrough. We've got 53 smart little ways to make you feel dazzling.

Complete your past in order to move on

Life coach Gail Blanke shares her three-step program for finishing old business and moving on.

Report: Men still not pulling weight on chores

American men still don't pull their weight when it comes to housework and child care, but collectively they're not the slackers they used to be.

What not to do with your money

From that latte addiction to another pair of shoes you just have to have, everyone makes some missteps with their money. But there are some mistakes you should never fall into.

Key to acceptance: Stop self-loathing

What's more compelling than movie star beauty, more enhancing than plastic surgery, and guaranteed to get you love, admiration, and a friendly response at the coffee shop?

Awaken joy and get more happiness

It came as no surprise to a woman we'll call Joan when, after 16 years of marriage, she and her husband started discussing the possibility of divorce. Deep down she'd never believed her marriage, or any marriage, could be genuinely happy. Still, the reality was crushing. "I was desperate," she says. "I thought, 'I'd do anything to feel better.'"

Divorce ceremonies for healing ... maybe a toaster

Charlotte Eulette of Montclair, New Jersey, ceremoniously reclaimed her maiden name and slipped a ring from her mother on her newly bare wedding ring finger.

What to tell kids about Spitzer scandal

Gil Rosa's high school students were young children when Bill Clinton's trysts with Monica Lewinsky threatened his presidency.

Quitting can be good for you

I call my friend Betsy "Besty" for two reasons: first, because she's one of the best-beloved people in my life, and second, because anything she tries, she does better than anyone else in the world.

Experts analyze Spitzer's thinking

It's the simplest question in the world, but it was the one repeated over and over Monday after the staggering news broke about Gov. Eliot Spitzer: What in heaven's name was the man thinking?

Watch out for energy vampires

Some people bring unexpected lightness and comfort to your life. They crackle with energy, practically electrify you with their presence. And then there are those who leave you feeling stressed out. Or guilty. Or exhausted down to your very last molecule.

Consumers pinching their pennies

New Yorker Evelyn Molina used to spend a lot of money eating out, buying her lunch and going out to dinner with friends about three to four times a week.

Boomers get urge to retire at 62

The oldest baby boomers are turning 62 this year, and some are using that as the catalyst to consider retiring.

After a parent's death, some bloom

The death of a mother or father can be emotionally wrenching -- particularly for children who had a difficult or complicated relationship with their parents. But for others, it can also be a time for personal growth and renewal.

Ailing hearts hard on spouses

Forty-five-year-old Mary Pakusch doesn't remember what happened in the minutes and hours after she went into sudden cardiac arrest at home on July 15, 2006. Her husband Paul does. Mostly, he remembers how scared he was.

Matchmaker's dating dos and don'ts

Unlucky in love? Can't seem to get past the first date? Patti Novak, one of America's toughest matchmakers, says you may be to blame for your single status.

$75M in gift cards could become worthless

You know that Sharper Image gift card you got for Christmas? Right now, it's worthless. And other gift cards in your wallet could lose their value, too.

Student loan debt -- how to get relief

We can all count on the certainty of death and taxes. But many of us can add student loan debt to that list. The average student graduates with about $21,000 in debt these days.

When you look your age, make a will

I had it all down to a system. Whenever a conversation would turn to the subject of age, I'd casually mention that I was 28, or 37, or 42, or however old I was at the time, and then I'd pause, magnanimously allowing people the beat they needed to acknowledge their surprise and commence with their compliments.

Tips to get the sleep you crave

Here are some ways to cope with nighttime disruptions and there are no pills required.

Sexual incompatibility troubles marriages

He's a 38-year-old executive. She's a 34-year-old homemaker. He says they never fight, and in many ways they're compatible -- but not when it comes to sex.

Get grandpa a dog -- or a robot

Dogs may have a hard time wrapping their paws around this one: Robotic competition is nipping at their heels in the man's-best-friend department.

Rogue debt collectors -- how to fight them

If you've faced a financial catastrophe -- an illness or job layoff -- and you've fallen behind on some bills, you're well aware that debt collectors are eager to collect those payments.

What bad banking news means to you

Bad news about the banking industry may have you wondering about the safety of your hard earned cash at your own bank.

Warning signs you could soon get a pink slip

Consumer confidence is at the lowest level in more than 14 years according to the Conference Board, a business and research organization that publishes the index.

Worst hair day ever involved a monkey

How long have you and I known each other? Well, by my calculations, we go back quite some time. This can mean only one thing: It's time for the monkey story.

The magic number for getting a loan

From mortgages to refinancing and home equity lines of credit -- it's getting harder for people to qualify for a loan. And that makes your credit score even more vital.

When credit cards put you in jeopardy

Americans are drowning in debt.

Ten guys women should run from

One guy is needier than quicksand. Another is jealous of your cocker spaniel. A third quietly hates all womankind. Here's a list of men you should put in your rearview mirror, ASAP.

Romances made of everyday gestures

Ever hear the one about the guy who had peachy-pink peonies imported from Chile every February? Apparently, he wanted to guarantee his sweetheart a touch of spring each morning.

Caught in a squeeze, he borrowed from his future

Trent Charlton knew the risks when he borrowed $10,000 from his 401(k) and cut his retirement savings in half.

Self-destructive friends -- what to do?

When Theresa heard her friend was getting married, her heart sank.

Turn on the charm -- get what you want

Whether you're happily married, contentedly single, or looking for a partner, there's no better way to grab someone's attention, says life coach Gail Blanke, even if it's just for fun.

Lessons from 'Heartbreak Academy'

Do you have trouble with love? Can't quite figure out what keeps going wrong? Maybe it's time to take a love lesson from Heartbreak Academy!

When your spouse announces he is gay

When her husband of more than a decade revealed he was gay, Anna Marie Will was surprised -- but not shocked.

Valentine's Day: Holiday from hell

For some, Valentine's Day can be heavenly. For others, it's just plain hell.

Write an obituary for dead love affair

If the love affair is dead, why not give it a proper send-off?

Valentine's Day: Holiday from hell

For some, Valentine's Day can be heavenly. For others, it's just plain hell.

Give your heart an empathy workout

I can't say I always enjoy cardiovascular exercise. I don't think anyone does. Oh, I've seen those infomercials featuring models whose granite abs and manic smiles become even more sharply defined at the very sight of workout equipment. But as we all know, these people are from Neptune.

How to pick a tax preparer

American workers have started receiving W-2 tax forms from their employers, which means the April 15 income tax filing deadline isn't that far away. While many people still do their own taxes, a majority seek professional help to deal with the increasingly complex tax code.

How long should I keep my old tax documents?

If you're itching for some early spring cleaning, emptying out filing drawers with old W-2's, receipts and bills might not be the best place to start.

Married her friend, living with a monster

Joan Gershman, 59, does not mince words when describing how Alzheimer's disease has affected her marriage.

What are you willing to do to be happy?

Are you truly happy? Where you live, what you do and how much sex you have just might be the answer! The biggest complainer Oprah knows is her makeup artist Reggie Wells. After a recent "Oprah Show," he agreed to take Pastor Will Bowen's complaint-free challenge. Reggie wears a purple wristband, and every time he utters a complaint, he has to change the wrist he wears it on.

Why sadness can blow your budget

If you're sad and shopping, watch your wallet: A new study shows people's spending judgment goes out the window when they're down, especially if they're a bit self-absorbed.

What to do in an emergency

In addition to the general guidelines you should follow, each natural disaster calls for its own specific preparations. Here are a few steps to consider, depending upon the event.

7 exercises to keep firm body

To maintain your muscles, aim for 20 minutes of strength-training exercises two to three times a week -- with at least one day off in between workouts so your muscles have time to rest, recover, and grow.

Are you happy -- really?

Are you truly happy? If you were presented with a group of people you've never met, could you determine who was really satisfied with their life? A panel of five people took a test to see how happy they really are. Based on this picture and a brief description, see if you can tell who is the happiest!

A 1-2-3 on starting your Web site or new job

Here's to your amazing new wine collection and your newfound ability to talk to anyone, anytime, about anything -- pandas, cigars or mashed potatoes! From starting a Web site to starting a new job, our experts tell you how to reignite your life, your passion and your mojo.

Dangers from secrets and lies

If you know a secret the rest of the world doesn't, it can drive you nuts. From dealing with little white lies to exposing a sexual harasser, consider how, when -- and when not -- to let the cat out of the bag.

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